The buildup to having a baby is a big one. The wait. The excitement, the anticipation. It’s a life change, a momentous event. And then the buildup to having a baby when you waited years and went through infertility treatments is even more of a climb. Like hiking up a mountain, without water on no sleep, in the dark… sans flashlight. That kind of climb. And then you get to the top the instant the sun peaks over the mountain and illuminates the whole sky. And you feel that acco

If you don't love the journey, you aren't going to love the destination. We've all heard this right? Fall in love with the journey not the destination, blah blah. So when we fall in love with having instead of doing we will never be happy. We will get there but then the next thing will be on the list to get and we'll be stuck in the journey part of it all over again. Everything is fleeting and nothing lasts, so having something will not create happiness because that thing doe