So I was at a baby shower the other day and I heard this statement. In context of someone commenting on one of the women there who had been divorced. And who God-forbid wasn't re-married. I've heard and done work around this before as I've definitely had it said to me time and time again. So let's analyze and see how it works. Karen: "Oh, is Susie married?" Diane: "No, she's divorced" Karen: "Aw, poor thing. Did she get re-married?" Diane: "No" Karen: "Awww" Saying this state

Let's talk about cutting out the 'being perfect', along with the carbs and our new years resolutions this year. Right there with the resolutions can set you up for the strive to be perfect, in turn setting yourself up for failure. We want to set ourselves up for success! So instead of making a resolution that we beat ourselves up if we can't keep, let's create instead. Create something new, create space, create new ways of being. The strive for perfect will kill you. Ok, so n