So I was at a baby shower the other day and I heard this statement. In context of someone commenting on one of the women there who had been divorced. And who God-forbid wasn't re-married. I've heard and done work around this before as I've definitely had it said to me time and time again. So let's analyze and see how it works. Karen: "Oh, is Susie married?" Diane: "No, she's divorced" Karen: "Aw, poor thing. Did she get re-married?" Diane: "No" Karen: "Awww" Saying this state